Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Breast cancer for me is "A Gift Without The Bow."

Welcome to Author to Author's Blog! I want to introduce myself to everyone, to let you know who I am, where I have been, and where I am going. Glenda and I hope you all will enjoy visiting us, tell others about our blog, and also come back to read more.

My name is Cindy Papale, and I am a breast cancer survivor. My life totally changed in July, 2000 when I heard the words for the first time, “your biopsy is positive for breast cancer.” Because I worked for a breast surgeon for eleven of my twenty-seven years at the University of Miami my first thought was: How bad is my cancer? Then I thought am I going to die.

I was diagnosed with a stage I, multi-focal, invasive left breast cancer. The first procedure I had was a lumpectomy followed by a modified radical mastectomy, and three months later my right breast was removed prophylactically. I had no breasts for the first five years as I had many concerns about going under anesthetic, rejecting the implant, and worrying how they would look. After having the opportunity to meet an artist/photographer and his friend who is a body painter I decided to be daring and have my body painted so that I could inspire other survivors and to let them know that they too, can still look beautiful after having both or one breast removed. AS THE COOL PAINT BRUSHED ACROSS MY BODY I FLASHED BACK TO THE DAY I WAS WHEELED INTO THE OPERATING ROOM TO HAVE BOTH MY BREASTS REMOVED. HAVING MY BODY PAINTED HAS TRULY BEEN AN OPPORTUNITY FOR ME TO SHARE MY DREAM OF HOW THE BEAUTY OF BREAST CANCER CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE.

I hated not feeling like a woman, but I overcame this one day after interviewing a young girl for the book I was writing. After talking about breast reconstruction she decided to “flash me her breasts” and told me that I should get a pair. What a shock that was. Needless to say, it is because of her that I now have size "B" boobs!

For me having had breast cancer is “A gift without the bow.” The not- so- great part of the gift is that I eventually lost both my breasts. The best part is that I was able to choose the size breast I wanted and to give back the blessings I received by speaking to high school and college age students letting them know that being proactive with their body is important, and if they felt uncomfortable with the doctor they are seeing it is okay to question someone of authority. Seek a second opinion if they have to, but be proactive!

After speaking for two years to the students, I wanted to do more. I decided to write my book ‘The Empty Cup Runneth Over,’ which is a treasure trove of information to help inspire, empower, and educate young women and men about breast cancer. To date, I have spoken to hundreds of thousands of students as well as to middle school students.

Visit http://www.theemptycuprunnethover.com/ for more information. I will tell you be ready to be on my site for at least a couple of hours. The inspirational videos, radio shows, and other survivor stories are amazing, not to mention all the exchange links of fantastic information.

Currently, I am writing a movie screenplay and book based off my movie. Be ready for that soon as well.

Cindy Papale/author of The Empty Cup Runneth Over/breast cancer survivor/associate producer
http://bit.Ly/empty

2 comments:

  1. Cindy, every time I find out that you're going to be on the radio I rush over and tune in. I want to listen! I know everything out of your mouth will be informative, funny, and great. I haven't suffered as you have, but I know others who have. I pray for you and your new blog every day!! Good luck!

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  2. Thank you Alena for visiting us here at author to author. We look forward to seeing more of your posts. Visit my website at www.theemptycupunnethover.com and also wwww.choosingtosmile.com you will truly enjoy both sites. Also, please share with others.

    Thanks,

    Cindy Papale

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